What Actually Happened?

I, uh, knew a man who once sent a letter to a mail channel that he'd raped his girlfriend and he's now a recovering rapist, attending an incest survivor's twelve step program. And the girlfriend, now ex, is in a support group for women who've been raped. What actually happened? "She was pa*sed out asleep on the couch after we'd been drinking. I woke up in the middle of the night horny so I f**ked her. She didn't wake up; I told her about it in the morning. She was furious! 'You raped me!' she said." What actually happened? What actually happened? What actually happened? What actually happened?